Things have changed drastically since your time and since mine. I only offer a piece of advice that you can take or leave: the people you knew then might not be the people you know now. The past and the future aren't very forgiving on this world.

[Whether they liked each other or not was independent of the fact that he had a right to know this warning. Cissnei told him and now it was out of her hands if he listens to her or not.]